Home LifeStyle We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know what’s at the heart of the perfect gift for every wife, which is to make her feel seen, heard and cherished. Even 20 years later, after all the jewelry we’ve received, our favorite gift remains a simple set of mixing bowls — because the gift giver noticed that we loved to bake.

Consider then, your wife’s rituals, routines and hobbies: Does she relish her a.m. flat white? Does she enjoy arranging fresh flowers in that just-right vase? Is no day complete without pajama-party story time with the kids? Perhaps she maps out the best running route or scouts out the best museums in every town she visits. She may collect things — houseplants, handbags, candles or cardigans.

Your job is simply to notice your wife’s particulars — and then consult our list of 92 great gift ideas to show her you’ve been paying attention.

Our Top Picks Zoe Chicco Gold Link Dangling Pearl Necklace at Amazon (See Price) Jump to Review Kjaer Weis KW Icons Makeup Set at Saks Fifth Avenue ($99) Jump to Review Society6 Abstract Print at Society6.com (See Price) Jump to Review Hat Attack Major Beanie at Amazon ($30) Jump to Review Slip Blossom Nights Pillowcase & Scrunchies Set at Amazon ($63) Jump to Review SolaWave Skincare Wand with Red Light Therapy & Serum Kit at Amazon ($71) Jump to Review Superdown Marissa Blazer at Revolve ($98) Jump to Review Riki Loves Riki Skinny Smart Portable LED Vanity Mirror at Amazon ($230) Jump to Review Ganni Leather Cowboy Boots at Net-a-Porter ($413) Jump to Review Sunday Riley Vitamin C Skincare Set at Amazon ($98) Jump to Review

Zoe Chicco Gold Link Dangling Pearl Necklace

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Featuring two of 2023's most popular jewelry trends — a gold chain link necklace and a shiny little pearl — this necklace is a subtle stunner. The gleaming freshwater pearl delicately dangles from the 14K tightly linked chain necklace that is sophisticated and fashion-forward, but not so trendy that you run the risk of popular styles falling by the wayside. Trust us, she’ll want to wear this everywhere.

Kjaer Weis KW Icons Makeup Set

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Saks Fifth Avenue $99

Never underestimate the mood-boosting power of new makeup, especially when it’s from Danish organic luxury brand Kjaer Weis. This limited-edition holiday essentials set offers gorgeous shades and a curated collection of the products you need for a night out — and nothing more. She’ll swoon over the cream blush in soft, warm pink, a high-volume black mascara, a translucent lip balm and a lightweight facial oil, all packaged in a glam red bag. She’ll love trying out all the new upgrades to her beauty routine, and you’ll love the reasonable price.

Society6 Abstract Print

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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We love the pop of fun, cheerful color in this modern abstract art print by German designer Ana Rut Bré of La Lune Tricoteé via Society6. Printed with long-lasting solvent inks on hand-stretched cotton-poly canvas, it comes in three size options, small, medium, and large, to accommodate spaces of every size. 

Hat Attack Major Beanie

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Amazon $30 View On Shopbop.com $38

Beanies are back, and this bestseller from Hat Attack is premium comfort plus cool-girl style. Made of chunky midweight knit woven in a traditional knit style, this cold weather classic is the brand’s signature beanie, so you know it’s warm and soft. The Hat Attack company was born in the Bronx, so we’re choosing this beanie in New York black, but it also comes in other muted colors that go with everything, including ivory and cool blue. Make it extra gifty by adding the matching cashmere texting gloves.

Slip Blossom Nights Pillowcase & Scrunchies Set

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Amazon $63 View On Nordstrom

Banish bad hair days forever with Slip’s set of good-hair-day-only essentials: A 100 percent silk pillowcase and three skinny silk scrunchies. Silk is kinder and gentler on both hair and skin than typical sheet fabrics — it keeps moisture in and causes less wrinkle- and frizz-inducing friction, which is probably why this pillowcase has won multiple awards, is dermatologist approved and hairstylist approved. Who’s ready for beauty sleep?

SolaWave Skincare Wand with Red Light Therapy & Serum Kit

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Seriously impressive before and after pictures are what sold us on this trending skin care device. Users show tighter, brighter skin with fewer dark spots and pimples, and slightly more sculpted cheekbones. There’s lots of tech at work here—red light therapy, galvanic current, therapeutic warmth, facial massage — but all we need to know is that it takes three minutes a day, it doesn’t hurt, and it works. A plumping, hydrating serum is also included in the bundle so she can get the glow on straight away.

Superdown Marissa Blazer

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Revolve $98

Sure, you could splurge for a calfskin leather oversized blazer, but you could also get one made with faux PU leather for a fraction of the price without compromising one bit of style. She can wear this blazer with almost anything to give her look an immediate coolness factor. Crafted with lightweight faux leather fabric, versatile this piece is a winter closet essential she’ll turn to all season long.

Riki Loves Riki Skinny Smart Portable LED Vanity Mirror

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Amazon $230 View On Nordstrom $230 View On Walmart $218

Elevate her beauty routine with this nearly magical lighted free-standing mirror. This lightweight, iPad-size mirror will change the way she does her makeup. The mirror is lined with diffused lighting that can be adjusted to five dimming settings and it also features a Bluetooth selfie function, too. But it’s the 5x magnifying mirror that is the really fabulous feature, making precision applications, like flicking a liquid liner, covering a blemish, or applying lashes, a total breeze.

Ganni Leather Cowboy Boots

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Net-a-Porter $413

You don’t have to rustle cattle or croon a country tune to rock these fabulously fun cowboy boots from Ganni. They’re handcrafted in full-grain leather with intricate embroidery in a traditional rodeo pattern, but paired with a modern pointed toe and a glossy white finish — a perfect match for a woman who loves to grab life by the horns — and look amazing doing it. 

Sunday Riley Vitamin C Skincare Set

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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The Sunday Riley Morning Buzz Vitamin C Trio Kit is the answer to beauty prayers for smoother, glowier skin. Vitamin C is a dermatologist darling for its powers to slow early skin aging (thanks to antioxidant properties that fight free radicals), prevent sun damage and minimize the appearance of wrinkles, dark spots and even acne. The signature formulas in this holiday kit — CEO 15 percent Vitamin C Brightening Serum, CEO Afterglow Brightening Gel Cream and CEO Vitamin C + Turmeric Face Oil — work for all skin types and tones and are universally adored by skin care junkies everywhere.

UGG Genuine Shearling Leather Tech Gloves

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Amazon $50 View On Nordstrom $100 View On Zappos $72

It was love at first sight with these furry shearling and suede gloves. They look luxurious and feel like fuzzy soft pillows on your hands, yet aren’t so delicate that she’ll be afraid to actually use them while going about her daily life. For the ultimate convenience, the index and middle fingers feature touchscreen-compatible leather so she won’t have to take them on and off (and thus mitigating the risk of leaving one somewhere). 

Oribe Oribe Lust Collection Set

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Amazon $115 View On Sephora $92

Devotees adored the scent of the Oribe haircare line so much that they successfully lobbied for a perfume version. That’s how good this stuff smells. Fortunately, it also works amazingly well, which is why it’s nicknamed the “fountain of youth for hair” and is used in salons around the country. The limited-edition three-piece set features Gold Lust Shampoo, Gold Lust Conditioner and Gold Lust Nourishing Hair Oil for serious hair hydration and rejuvenation. Comes ready for gifting in a gorgeous box featuring original artwork by Louis Barthelemy.

Shark SpeedStyle RapidGloss Hair Dryer

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Amazon $197 View On Nordstrom $200 View On Sephora $199

If the Dyson Supersonic is on her list but not in your budget, slide your cursor over to another tech-forward hair dryer, the Shark SpeedStyle RapidGloss Hair Dryer. Lightweight and compact — and only a third the price of a Dyson —this dryer features similar power and speed to dry wet hair in a flash without leaving strands damaged. With three attachments, including one just to create that enviable high gloss finish we all want, she’ll be able to style her hair any way she wants. Major bonus points to Shark for designing this hair dryer for specific hair types: one for straight to wavy hair and one for curly to coily textures.

Montce Swim Sky Sparkle Bikini Top

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Who’s ready for a beach vacation? (Hands raised.) When wanderlust comes calling, this bikini top answers. Made by Fort Lauderdale-based, female-founded swimwear company Montce, the adjustable top is comfortable and well made with a heaping side of saucy. We recommend pairing it with the Lulu bikini bottom, or, for a more modest look, the Added Coverage High Rise Bikini Bottom. It’s available in 30 colors and patterns, sizes XS to XL.

La Canadienne Miles Leather Boot Miles Leather Boot

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Zappos $625

She’s an Italian heiress, a French spy, a rock and roll legend or just the baddest babe at a bar mitzvah in these platform leather knee-high boots from Montreal-based La Canadienne. Handcrafted in Italy, they have an impeccable craftsmanship that looks undeniably luxurious and will last a lifetime. They’re also shockingly comfortable, so she’ll be on her feet from the first song to the last and every dance in between.  

Lilysilk Cashmere-Wool Belted Hooded Coat

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Leave the parkas and puffers for weekend walks and kid pickup, because when it’s time for adulting, she’ll need an elegant wool-blend coat that is as chic and sophisticated as it is soft and cozy. This one from Lilysilk is made from the prized undercoat of Mongolian goats and ultra-fine merino wool, so it’s lightweight and breathable but retains heat. We love the built-in hood for extra warmth and the matching belt for a snatched waist. Snag it in one of two classic neutrals, black or camel.

Ultimate Ears BOOM 3 Waterproof Speaker

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Amazon $69 View On Ultimateears.com View On Best Buy $113

Ever notice how adding music to anything you’re doing — even washing dishes, makes life infintely better? Give the gift of rich, deep-base, 360-degree sound in a waterproof, drop-proof speaker for happy tunes anywhere your giftee goes — parties, the pool, traveling, or just the kitchen, the office or the shower. With the Ultimate Ears Boom 3, she’ll get 15 hours of battery life and the ability to connect to up to 150 other speakers. That’s a lot of great music in a cute portable package.

Dearfoams Fireside Shearling Slipper

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Amazon $90

It’s a slipper. It’s a boot. It’s a plush, snuggly haven for toasty toes in winter. Dearfoams makes these indoor/outdoor slippers with genuine shearling lining for warmth and memory foam insoles for ridiculous comfort. We like to fold the flaps up to keep our ankles cozy too.

Leonor Greyl Luxury Travel Kit

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Nordstrom $56

Ah, French beauty, so simple and elegant, and now achievable even when you’re traveling for the holidays in this curated holiday gift set from Leonor Greyl. Hero products include the bestselling L’Huile de Leonor Greyl Pre-Shampoo Treatment Oil, Shampooing Crème Moelle de Bambou Hydrating Shampoo and the Masque Fleurs de Jasmin Hair Mask.

Baby Gold Linear Name Necklace

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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What could be more personal than her own name or her child’s name — in all caps! We love the modern rounded block letter font on this necklace from affordable LA-based jewelry company Baby Gold. It’s dainty but bold at the same time and is perfect for layering. Comes in 14K solid gold or silver with a 16-inch or 18-inch chain, and has a lifetime guarantee.

Rebecca Minkoff Julian Small Crossbody

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Bloomingdales $278 View On Rebeccaminkoff.com

This is not a diaper bag. It’s a playful but edgy, bit of rock ‘n roll leather crossbody from Rebecca Minkoff that is an identity all her own. Made with on-trend fringe and plenty of antique silver hardware, including the designer’s signature dog-clip, it’s roomy enough for the all the essentials (including a diaper, actually) but compact enough for everyday wear. Comes in white and black with silver or black hardware, plus carmello (caramel), elephant/gunmetal (light charcoal) and nude.

Vinebox 12 Nights of Wine

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Vinebox 12 Nights of Wine is a fun way for wine lovers to discover new favorites — and an excuse to drink every night for nearly two weeks (woo-hoo!). The Cozy Collection has a dozen glass vials of sommelier-curated reds from Italy, France, Spain and California. The Chill Collection features whites, rosés and a few chillable reds. Comes with tasting notes, pairing suggestions and virtual tasting videos. Food and Wine calls this gift set “wildly popular,” which is probably why it sells out every year, so you might want to nab it now while it’s on pre-sale.

MM LaFleur Jolie Jardigan

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Mmlafleur.com $245

What exactly is a jardigan? It’s a fun portmanteau — a word combining jacket and cardigan, but what’s important is that it’s about to solve many wardrobe quandaries in one fell swoop. That’s because it has the professional fit and structure of a blazer but the feel of a sweater, which makes it perfect for work, weekends and those nebulous occasions in between when she might be unsure of the dress code. Comes in five colors and sizes from XS to XXL.

Bloomscape Olive Tree

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Potted olive trees are being hailed as “the next big thing” in the interior design world, but that’s not the only reason they make a great gift for plant moms. Unlike fiddle leaf fig plants, last year’s design darling with ginormous platter-like leaves that take over a room, the olive tree is its gentle cousin, slow-growing and graceful, with delicate sage-green leaves and a slim trunk. When bathed in bright sunlight, it should even bear fruit within a few years. Choose medium or large in one of five colored eco-pots.

Brilliant Earth Wide Huggie Hoop Earrings

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Whether she matches her jewelry to her outfit or sticks with one great look, these modern wide huggie hoops from Brilliant Earth are sure to make the tight rotation. In lustrous 14K gold or silver, they’re well made, comfortable and chic as hell. We’d give them more than five stars if we could. As a bonus, you’ll feel good about supporting a company that uses recycled gold and silver, gives back to local communities through its foundation, and is well on its way to being carbon neutral. 

By Anthropologie Long Sleeve Beaded Top

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Anthropologie $60

When it’s time to hit the town for date night or holiday soirées, this beaded mesh top is ready to party. She’ll love the sophisticated take on the sheer trend — and how it’s somehow spangly and understated at the same time. Comes with a black cami, in standard and plus, XXS to XL.

Tatcha Special Edition Luxury Kiri

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Sephora $344

Skin care mavens will swoon at the sight of this limited-edition collection of Tatcha’s best-loved formulas, packaged in a luxe wooden Kiri box complete with a custom Furoshiki, a keepsake wrapping cloth that’s part of traditional Japanese gift-giving. This set has all the award winners and bestsellers, including Camellia Cleansing Oil, The Rice Polish, The Essence, The Dewy Skin Cream, The Silk Peony, The Kissu Lip Mask and Liquid Silk Canvas.

Murray’s Cheese Better Than Cake Tower

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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If she loves cheese, she probably knows the 60-year-old New York legacy brand Murray’s Cheese. And either way, she’ll definitely love their gourmet cheese tower. Not only will it make an impressive centerpiece for charcuterie night, a cocktail party or any gathering, but the four specialty cheeses will be some of the tastiest she’s ever had. We’re huge fans of Alisios, a creamy tangy goat cheese, and Cave-Aged Original Buttermilk basque, an earthy yogurt sheep’s milk cheese. Repurpose leftovers for lunch with crackers, fruit slices and salted nuts.

Vuori AllTheFeels Legging

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Vuoriclothing.com View On REI $98

It’s a scientific fact (we’re pretty sure) that you’re more likely to do something if you feel good and look good doing it. For exercise inspiration, enter leggings made with Vuori’s new BlissBlend fabric, a performance stretch knit that’s super soft and doesn’t constrict — but still hugs your shape in the most flattering way. The high-rise leggings are breathable, with lightweight support. They come in five colors, sizes short, regular or long, XS to XL. To make it even more giftworthy, make it a set with the matching AllTheFeels bra in sizes XS to XL.

Georg Jensen Sky 3-Piece Bar Set

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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If cocktails or mocktails are her thing, she’ll adore this beautiful modern barware designed by Aurélien Barbry for George Jensen. Featuring sensuous, organic shapes that are sure to spark conversation, the Sky cocktail set features a shaker, stirring spoon and measuring jigger, all made from mirror-polished stainless steel.  

Love Binetti Reine Cardigan

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Chunky knits are the MVP of any fall-winter wardrobe in 2023, and we’re crushing on this magpie of a cardigan from Argentinian-founded fashion house Diego Binetti. Handknitted from 100 percent wool, it has delightful pom-pom buttons and embellished sleeves with a contrast color stripe at the neck, hem and wrists. Perfect for anyone who likes to make a style statement just by showing up.

Jean Dousset Mini Round Brilliant Lab Diamond Studs

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Call off the search because any woman will light up when she opens the box and sees two sparkling round brilliant diamond studs twinkling back at her. The colorless VS+ clarity lab-grown diamonds (no one will know they weren’t mined from deep in the earth), are held securely by a four-prong setting — choose 18K white gold, 18K yellow gold, 18K rose gold or platinum. These studs are .3 total carat weight; if you’re feeling spendy, go up to 0.5.

Artfully Walls DeKooning, Beuys and Plants Wall Art

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Anthropologie $458

This colorful, whimsical print from San Francisco-based artist Mary Finlayson will put a smile on the face of any modern art lover who walks by it. In archival ink printed on museum-quality paper with a wood frame and UV plexiglass panel, it measures 34-inches high by 26-inches wide — a perfect size to hang by itself or as part of a larger gallery wall.

Never Say Never Comfie Thong Five-Pack

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Cosabella.com View On Bloomingdales $125

Extravagant lacy undies are the kind of splurge many people resist buying for themselves, perhaps out of guilt — but they’re only too pleased to receive them as a gift! The thong undies in this five-pack by lingerie giant Cosabella are made from the brand’s soft-stretch scalloped signature lace and have a mid-rise fit, with wide stretchy lace at the waistband, which makes them comfy and flattering. Comes in several color combos but we’re loving the Roaring Burgundy. Available with a complimentary silk bag because, fancy.

Parfums De Marly Delina Coffret

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

View On Neiman Marcus $495

We’ve officially lost count of the compliments we get on this French floral scent, and have even gifted bottles to its most arduous fans. The eau de parfum is both feminine, with bright notes of Turkish rose, lily of the valley and peony, and sensual, with deeper notes of vanilla, white musk, cashmere, cedarwood and incense. All you need to know is that she’ll feel like a queen wearing this happy, heart-warming fragrance — and you will be her king. 

Karen Millen Faux Leather Pocket Detail Shirt

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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In case you missed the memo, leather (real or not) is the “it” fabric of the season, and you don’t have to be a punk rocker to pull it off. In fact, this faux leather button down from elevated British brand Karen Millen is quite elegant — with a classic collar and patch pockets. The best part: She can pop it on over a simple tee and voila, instant outfit. Comes in sizes 2 to 12.

Blvck Paris ‘Blvck x Keith Haring’ Notebook

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Just as pop artist Keith Haring was inspired by graffiti, your wife will be inspired by his art on the cover of this blank hardback notebook, a limited-edition collaboration with style house Blvck Paris. And just as Haring drew with white chalk on the black paper covering vacant advertising panels on city streets, the pages of this journal are black, to be used with two silver and gold gel pens (included) for a more authentic Haring experience. Comes in a gorgeous black box with silver Haring figures. For passionate fans of the artist, consider adding the collection’s heart-embellished cardigan, a blend of wool and cashmere in sizes XS to XL.  

July Large Luggage

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Every woman deserves a nice piece of luggage, and July has all the right stuff. Their Checked Plus hard-sided bag, made from durable polycarbonate, has cool features we love, including a hidden laundry bag to keep stinky socks away from clean tops, a compression mechanism that lets you overpack and still zip up easily, and lots of compartments — including for a laptop and portable charger. Smooth wheels and an adjustable telescoping handle make this bag a breeze to use for slightly longer trips — or anytime she’s going to Paris and needs all the ’fits. Add free personalization to make it extra gifty.

CQC Dune Reversible Quilt

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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This handmade cotton quilt, with warm pinks converging on a golden sun, is more a work of art than a bedspread, but lucky for us, it’s both. Handcrafted by four different types of artisans — using wood carving, block-printing, dying and stitching, it’s made in small batches and features an entirely different design on the reverse. Perfect for the décor aficionado who doesn’t want her home to look like everyone else’s.

The Beekman 1802 Decadent Slice of Kindness Advent Calendar

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Everyone loves little treats, and this extravagant yellow chest of drawers — it looks like a three-layer cake — from goat milk skin care brand Beekman 1802 has delightful surprises in store for 24 days. Along with full-size and mini versions of its greatest hits for face and body, it features a Goatie cake topper with kind messages on every slice. The best part: The products are fantastic. We especially love the Almond Honey Cookie Goat Milk Whipped Body Cream.

Aaron Basha Vermeil Beaded Navy Blue Evil Eye Bracelet Set

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In Mediterranean cultures, the evil eye is considered a lucky amulet thought to ward off bad energy and protect its wearer. This 18K gold-plated beaded elastic bracelet set from Aaron Basha has an extra special evil eye — it’s surrounded by 17 small diamonds. That gives it extra power, right? We’re not taking ours off, you know, just to make sure.

Anthropologie Gianna Grecian Bust Pot

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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The Greek Antiquities exhibit at the Metropolitan Museum of Art called, and they want their sculpture back. But too bad, because this lovely Grecian bust pot, with a festive headdress of fruit and cascading tendrils, is your wife’s new prized planter. Made of hand-painted cement, it brings the classical (and the whimsical) into any contemporary living space.

Nespresso Vertuo Lattissima by De’Longhi

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Take Nespresso’s easy, convenient one-button brewing and add automatic milk-frothing options — and she’ll never miss her latte before morning carpool again. With the Vertuo Lattissima, she can create velvety cappuccinos or add hot foam to coffee or espresso at the press of a button. There’s no guesswork — or any manual work for that matter — involved. Make a small cup, a big mug, or a whole carafe. It uses her same favorite VertuoLine coffees and espresso capsules but takes them to a whole new level.

Henne Wren Pant

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Who needs another pair of black pants? Your wife does, because these tailored trousers are only the chicest she’ll ever wear. In a wool blend with a flattering high-waist and wide leg, they’re on-trend for fall-winter 2023 but are a timeless style built to last. We like to pair them with a simple tee and sneakers for a polished but edgy look, but they can easily dress up with a blouse, sweater or the matching Wren Blazer. You can feel good about buying from Aussie brand Henne as they support Fit For Work, a nonprofit job training and coaching program for women in Australia.

MZ Wallace Medium Sutton Deluxe

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If backpacks feel young and briefcases feel old, the Goldilocks special is this new quilted tote from MZ Wallace. We love that it’s super chic — you’ll see these on the streets of Manhattan, and it’s actually practical — lightweight nylon doesn’t add weight; padded handles and a crossbody strap make for easy carrying; and it zips easily over our 13-inch laptop. Plus, there are six interior pockets, two exterior pockets, a removable pouch and a key ring strap. We mean, it’s the total package. Comes in five colors, also in small and micro sizes.

Aviator Nation 5-Stripe Hoodie

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Barbie fever lives on in this neon pink striped hoodie from California’s surfer-approved brand Aviator Nation. But if pink’s not your wife’s thing, we urge you to choose another color combo (there are 23 to choose from), because this zip-up sweatshirt is the definition of luxury — an everyday item made special. It is ultra soft and yummy, especially when paired with the matching sweatpants. She will reach for it every single day (really).

Cuisinart Stand Mixer

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Calling all bakers — and anyone who gets invited to potluck events where baked goods are on the menu. Take the labor out of cookies, cupcakes, brownies and more with a Cuisinart stand mixer. This baby has 12 speeds and comes with a chef’s whisk, dough hook and flat mixing paddle, plus a stainless steel bowl — all dishwasher safe, so she can mix batter without breaking a sweat, unless she’s got a good playlist going. Comes in 13 enamel finishes, including a cool retro agave green. 

Marcella NYC Mallory Coat

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Warning: Total strangers will stop her in the street to fawn over this stunning coat from Marcella. Designed in NYC and crafted in Europe, it’s 100 percent Italian wool with a shawl collar, hood and a waist-cinching sash belt. Feels thick, soft and warm — perfect for fall and winter. Comes in black and cream, sizes XS to XL. Bonus: Marcella uses eco-friendly materials and sustainable practices, and partners with the global NGO CAMFED to support schooling for girls in sub-Sahara Africa.

Cozy Earth Long Sleeve Bamboo Pajamas in Stretch-Knit

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Who’s ready for bed? So what if it’s only 8pm! Once your wife dons these snuggly soft, breathable Oprah-endorsed pajamas, she will count the hours till she can wear them again. Made with a soft-stretch bamboo knit that sleeps cooler than cotton, the much-loved PJ set from Cozy Earth keeps the temperature just right through the night, and looks great doing it. Choose from 12 colors, sizes XS through XXXL, regular or tall.  

Lostine Ceramic Candle Holder

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Candlelight dinners get a refined, minimalist upgrade with handmade white ceramic candle holders from Lostine, an artisanal lighting and home furnishings company based in Philadelphia. In two glazes — Dove, a soft white matte, and glossy Cream, they’re sold separately but take on the look of an art installation when displayed in groups. We love the Bella, the Beau and Sabine, with pleats that remind us of a dancer’s skirt. Add 10-inch taper candles and let the at-home date night begin.

Splendid x Cella Jane Cashblend Open-Front Cardigan

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Part of a brand-new drop from Splendid in collaboration with @cellajaneblog's Becky, this cotton-cashblend (made with a touch of cashmere) cardigan is a fashion workhorse. It can be thrown over a tank or a tee with jeans or dressed up atop leather pants with heels. It’s ready for anything! She’ll love the tunic length, effortless, collarless, open front style, and the way it keeps her warm and cozy. This cardi is ready for anything!

Augustinus Bader the Renewal Icons with the Cream

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Skin care junkies whose holy grail is a refreshed and brightened complexion with fewer fine lines and wrinkles have likely been hankering for this holiday set from Augustinus Bader. It features two award-winning products, The Cream and The Eye Cream, both powered by TFC8, a proprietary blend that supports skin’s innate ability to renew. Yes, it’s pricey, but that’s because it works.

MOTHER High Rise Flare Jean

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Denim aficionados hail Mother as queen of the jean. We don’t even have to describe the Hustler Patch Pocket High Rise Flare Roller style (in new hue Save Your Soul, a perfectly washed black), because these leggy ladies sell themselves. But just so you know, they’re 90 percent cotton with elastane for subtle stretch, have a zip fly with button closure, feature four-pocket styling and come in sizes 24 to 33.

Sunday Citizen Cusco Throw

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This Sunday Citizen throw blanket is so dreamily snuggly soft, there must be some wizardry behind it. They say the fabric is “microfiber,” but we’re calling it “magicfiber” — and your wife will, too, the moment she feels the plushness with her own hands. This throw is somehow also lightweight and breathable, and comes in 19 delightful designs in multiple colors, though we’re huge fans of the Cusco and XOXO designs — 10 out of 10.

Isabella Kron Linda Silk Shirt

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Milan-born designer Isabella Kron, who has worked with Gucci and Calvin Klein, does not take shortcuts. She uses fabrics imported from Italy and carefully hand stitches each of her pieces to create sumptuous wardrobe essentials inspired by the glamour of the 1960s and 1970s. What that means for your wife is that this silk button down, with mother of pearl buttons and bishop sleeves, will have an impeccable fit and drape, and quality that will last.

Afternoon Light Chrome Stacking Planter

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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This circular chrome planter from Afternoon Light is an art deco masterpiece. Not only is it part of a limited artist series featuring the designers’ signature on the bottom (so, literally art), but it’s also functionally brilliant because it integrates the saucer discretely as the bottom ring. Dimensions are 8.5 inches by 8 inches, perfect for a plant mom who prizes form and function.  

Gitti Mix + Match Set

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At-home manis never looked so good or felt so virtuous. With this gift set, she’ll get four high-shine, long-lasting nail polishes in the season’s “It” colors, or top and base coats of her choice. Not only do the polishes cover well and dry quickly, but they’re clean, plant-based, 30-free, cruelty-free and PETA-approved, and they come in glass bottles made from 20 percent post-industry recycled glass. She’ll never use petrochemical polishes again.  

Garnet Hill Cashmere V-Neck Pullover

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This 100 percent cashmere V-neck sweater is a beautiful basic she’s likely to wear on repeat. Because it’s Garnet Hill you know it’s well constructed, and because it’s cashmere you know it’s super soft. We love the relaxed fit and the dolman sleeves that are rib-knit just below the elbow, matching the flattering rib knit at the hem. She can feel extra good that the cashmere is produced in accordance with high animal welfare standards and is traced through the supply chain from herders to the final product. Comes in nine earthy colors, sizes XS to XL. 

Aldo Bigstrut Loafers

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Loafers are a timeless wardrobe essential that can be worn season after season — it helps that they’re also very comfortable for endless errands and give almost any outfit a polished finish. We’re loving the menswear-inspired lug sole versions at Aldo with a leather upper and a lightweight outsole that will not weigh her down. Comes in four colors, sizes five to 11.

Made by Mary Drop Pearl Hoop Earrings

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Does your wife love wearing hoop earrings? These 14K gold-filled baroque pearl hooplets from Made by Mary are as affordable as they are classy, and we’ll let that be our secret. All your wife will know is that they’re stunning, with 8MM baroque pearls suspended from petite gold hoops that can also be worn alone or with other pearls or charms. Brand CEO and owner Mary Moody started her company to overcome post-partum depression, so all her pieces are designed to spread joy. Mission accomplished. 

Villeroy & Boch Like Lavender Champagne Coupe

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Champagne toasts feel extra special with this pair of colorful crystal glasses from venerable tabletop company Villeroy & Boch. We’re loving the lavender, but the set also comes in Apricot (pinky orange), Ice (blue), Sage (green) and Clay (brown). If you’re not fans of bubbly, the glasses also make extravagant serving dishes for dessert. Sorbet, anyone?

Bernardo Faux Shearling Coat

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Gift her the look of luxe shearling at a fraction of the price with this covet-worthy Faux Shearling Coat from Bernardo, a designer known for his wearable avant garde designs. It’s double-breasted and cropped to the hip, in a rich chocolatey brown, a color that’s making a huge comeback this season. She can dress it up or down — it will look just as great over a dress as it will over sweats. Comes in sizes XS to XXL. 

Cairo Kohl Louise Travel Case 3

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Introducing your wife’s new favorite makeup bag, a wonder of utility. For starters, this roomy travel case zips all the way open so she can see all the contents all at once! It’s also made from sturdy fabric that stays upright and doesn’t slouch, and has several compartments for organization — along with a plastic-lined nylon interior for when her sunscreen decides to bust open mid-flight. Don’t be surprised if she decides to relocate her makeup here permanently. 

Hourglass Ambient Lighting Edit Unlocked in Snake Palette

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Everything she needs to look radiant and glowy is in this very cool new palette from Hourglass, the master of color-correcting and diffusing for that “lit from within” look. The limited-edition packaging — in tin instead of plastic, features bestselling Ambient Lighting Powder, along with five new shades of blush, bronzer and highlighter. As a bonus, the palette is vegan and cruelty-free, and five percent of profits support the Nonhuman Rights Project. Also available in shades Jellyfish and Leopard.

Aerangis Candle Discovery Set

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Candle lovers will take approximately 300,000 more deep breaths with this gift of three sublime candles from woman-owned candle company Aerangis. The Discovery set includes mini versions of their bestselling signature scents: Aging Spirits, The Beginning and Secret Garden, along with a fancy wick trimmer. Packaged in eco-friendly ceramic jars, the candles are a hand-poured 100 percent plant-based wax-free blend that is free from synthetic dyes, parabens and phthalates. 

Oak & Fort Wool Blend Double Breasted Coat

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Some version of this coat — a relaxed, midi length plaid with notched lapels and back slit, was all over London on our recent trip there, and now we’re obsessed with this menswear-inspired style and honestly, all things plaid. Oak & Fort based this coat on their bestselling Liner style, but they upgraded the wool for greater warmth. And get this: It’s machine washable! Is it tea time yet?

Mapperri ED Baroque Pearl Necklace

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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This baroque pearl choker is romantic, it’s lustrous, and it’s just unusual enough to be an incredible statement piece. The pearls are large, textured and voluptuous — 3.9 inches wide, and the strand is an adjustable length — 16.5 inches to 18 inches, with a rhodium-plated sterling silver clasp. As impressive as it looks here, it’s even more gorgeous on.  

New Balance Women’s 515 Retro Sneaker

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These throwback sneaks are the best of both worlds — nostalgic ’80s and ’90s styling, with classic saddle branding and a mix of suede upper and rubber outsole, combined with today’s technology for comfort, including feather-weight EVA foam cushioning in the midsole and heel. The 515 Retro Sneaker from New Balance comes in eight color combos, sizes six to 11. 

By Anthropologie Petra Mini Drop Earrings

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Give her regular hoops the day off, because these TikTok famous, molten magic earrings make a style statement that’s new and modern. The lightweight earrings come in silver or black (rhodium-plated brass), gold or rose gold (14k gold-plated brass) — and at this price, you’ll probably want to just go ahead and buy one of each. Compliments are forthcoming and that’s always in style. 

TerraFlame Wave Tabletop Fire Bowl

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No fireplace, no firepit, no problem! Makers of the iconic Solo Stove firepit have come up with an ingenious solution: The Wave Fire Bowl. It’s a concrete bowl filled with river rocks and gel fuel that fires up flickering, crackling flames for an indoor or outdoor cozy fireplace experience. Go ahead and roast s’mores — or just chill in the ambient glow. The bowl comes in seven colors and several shapes, and has a cork bottom to protect surfaces. 

Olaplex Strong Days Ahead Hair Kit

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After trying Olaplex products, your wife will no longer trust her tresses to any other brand. They’re that good. Here we have a limited-edition set of bestsellers — No. 4 Bond Maintenance Shampoo, No. 5 Bond Maintenance Conditioner, and Hair Perfector No. 3. It’s everything she needs for soft, shiny, healthy hair. Works on all hair types. 

Memento Mori Tarot Star Charm Necklace

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Tarot fans seeking to realize their inner goddess — or just feel more connected spiritually, will appreciate the meaning behind this Star Charm pendant necklace. According to Tarot practice, the star card shows up when you’ve overcome hardship and are ready to reclaim your power and purpose. Sterling silver plated in rhodium on a 16-inch chain, it also comes in cards featuring the Magician, the High Priestess, the Empress, the Sun, the Lovers and more. 

Heraclea Olive Oil set

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The fruity-fresh flavor and peppery finish on this pair of premium extra virgin olive oils from Turkey reminds us of a recent trip to that country, where a drizzle of olive oil turned even the simplest tomato into a gourmet amuse bouche. Use Early Harvest, a fruity, grassy, peppery blend made from Memecik olives harvested in early fall, with soups, salads, breads and other savory fare. Use Mature Harvest, a more delicate, creamy mild blend harvested in late fall, with baked goods, marinades, roasts and cooked veggies. Consider adding a stainless steel spout for bespoke serving.

Petal and Pup Sunday Crewneck Knit Sweater

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Is it Sunday yet? Who cares? She’ll want to grab this soft, comfy round-neck sweater any day of the week. It has ribbed cuffs and a ribbed hem for added texture and style — plus “Sunday” graphic text in retro bubble letters of course. It already earned a few compliments on its debut outing, if that makes your decision easier. Comes in XS to L. 

Aldo Shoes Coanad Ankle Boots

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Your wife already has boots, we know. But these have pointed toes! And an angular block heel inspired by cowboy boots! It’s baffling how quickly women’s fashion changes but trust us when we say that these are the ankle boots she needs in 2023 to look and feel chic and current. They have a leather upper, comfy padded foam insoles, rubber soles and an inside zipper, and come in sizes five to 11.

Yolaine Paris Le Rouge Et Noir

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If your wife is enamored of French girl beauty, she’ll find these essentials from Yolaine Paris très belle. The gift set Le Rouge et le Noir features Mousse De Rouge (a blush and lip mousse) in Garance, the most French red we’ve found, a double-ended lip brush, and the brand’s elegant black Le Mascara, with nourishing shea butter. The products are vegan, not tested on animals, and use sustainable packaging made from sugar-cane bioplastic. 

Quay Australia Felt Cute Sunglasses

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Trend alert! These Hollywood retro glam sunnies were seen all over the streets of New York Fashion week. This affordable version from Australian brand Quay has polarized gradient lenses and universal nose pads. Comes with a case and cleaning cloth. 

CrushGrind Columbia Coffee Grinder

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Coffee snobs will enjoy feeling smug about this slim, artful grinder. Not only does it look cool, with the spherical shape and iconic sphere on top, but it’s a heck of a piece of grinding machinery — it’s even patented. Made from ceramic and stainless steel, the grinder tackles up to 28 grams of coffee beans in one go, and you can adjust the coarseness setting to suit your brewer. Only the best for your java lover. 

MOTHER The Sinful Tee

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Motherhood is something to celebrate, and this soft crewneck tee does it on repeat, with graphic treatment that fades as it descends and includes tiny flowers, moons, spiders, cobwebs, snakes and other symbols — we guess because parenting is a walk on the wild side? Either way, it’s very cool and we’re wearing it often, under cardigans, blazers and bomber jackets. Made in LA from a blend of cotton and linen with a slim, vintage fit, sizes XS to XL.

ELEMENT EIGHT O2 Niacinamide Eight Active Serum

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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This swanky new serum feels like a tall drink of water for your face, but really it works by delivering oxygen — the brand’s proprietary OATH, oxygen-amplifed therapy — deep into cells for impressive anti-aging results. For skin care junkies, it’s also got niacinamide, peptides, hyaluronic acid and resveratrol, which are holy grail ingredients for softening fine lines and wrinkles and making skin look firm, plump and dewy. It is truly transformative, and we love that it’s just one product vs. a 10-step program, because nobody has time for that.   

Dagne Dover Lagos Convertible Duffel Bag

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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For weekend getaways when a roller bag is too big, we recommend Dagne Dover’s latest drop, the Travel Lagos Convertible Duffle. Made from sturdy 100 percent recycled material, it has ultra-smooth zippers, spacious pockets (including for phones), tech protection, no-slip straps, and even detachable backpack straps in case she finds herself bolting to a connecting flight. Comes in medium or large. Choose from four colors, including a delightful dark peach called Warm Dust. 

Soul Journey Jewelry Destiny Calls Bracelet

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Destiny called and said your wife’s wrist was longing for adornment, and this set of four semi-precious beaded bracelets is just what fate had in mind. The elastic bracelets, handcrafted in California, are an elegant, bohemian mix of bevel-cut turquoise and aquamarine stones, along with a 14K gold garnet charm to bestow hope and courage upon the wearer. Comes in small, medium and large, and in a host of other soul-soothing color combos. 

Isabella Kron Holborn Ruched Crop Top

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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This soft cotton jersey top is proof that grown, sophisticated women can wear crop tops. It’s all in the details: The tailored arm holes, the impeccable stitching, the ruching at the waist. Pair it with high-rise jeans or skirts for a chic, waist-nipping look. Made in Italy, the top comes in black, blue, dusty pink, military and white, sizes S to XL.

Grounds & Hounds Coffee Subscription

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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You can’t argue with delicious coffee that is 100 percent organic and eco-friendly and donates 20 percent of profits to canine rescue organizations around the country. The Grounds & Hounds Coffee Gift Subscription features one to four bags of single-origin or flavored coffee monthly for three, six or 12 months. Choose from 13 coffee flavors or variety packs, whole beans, ground or pods. A six-month subscription feeds 90 meals to pups in need. That’s nothing to bark at. 

rubi Phoebe Brushed Tassel Scarf

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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We’re warm and toasty just looking at this thick, soft, tasseled scarf from Cotton On, an Aussie brand supporting the Born This Way Foundation and mental health resources. The scarf comes in six color gradations but we’re loving the burgundy/pink stripe for a happy pop of color in dreary winter. 

Kodak Wireless Mobile Photo Mini Printer

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Literally thousands of photos are languishing in the digital desert of your wife’s phone at any time. She says she’ll print them someday, so how about today? The Kodak Step Slim Printer is a palm-sized device that pairs easily with a smartphone to crank out instant color or black and white prints (with ink-free technology no less), that won’t smear or smudge like old-timey Polaroids. She can edit the pics on her phone first with an easy-to-use app. Comes with a starter pack of Kodak Zinc paper. 

Lapcos Variety Pamper Pack

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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The 10 masks and two exfoliating pads in the newest Lapcos Variety Pamper Pack mean many blissful spa days are in your wife’s near future. The Korean beauty-inspired masks hydrate and nourish hair, face, eyes, lips and hands, and address a range of problems from blocked pores to dehydrated skin. 

Diamond Drunk Say It With Diamonds

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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New jewelry is pricey, but her finery can look new for much less with the non-toxic, vegan Diamond Drunk jewelry cleaner. Natural ingredients derived from coconut, sugarcane, and beetroot dissolve grime, grit, oils and dirt on diamond, gold and platinum pieces, including underneath prongs, for that day-you-got-it sparkle. A bauble basket inside has a ring rung and earring clip, so jewels can be easily lifted out. Comes in white (lemon drop), pink (alchemist rose), blue (forbidden fruit) and black (Malibu rain). 

Kähler Hammershoi Vase

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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The real beauty of this simple Scandinavian vase is that it’s a neutral stage for the real actors, your bouquet of fresh flowers. Made of durable porcelain with fluted details and a white glazed finish, it comes in small, medium and large. (Don’t forget to add the flowers.)

Sticky Be Socks Women’s Mantra Box

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Gift your yoga or Pilates fan a treasure trove of non-slip grip socks with the Sticky Be Socks Women’s Mantra Box. She’ll get inspired every day of the week with seven pairs of high-performance, breathable, padded cotton ankle socks bearing mantras such as “Be Mindful,” “Be Thankful,” and “Be You.” 

Pretty Honest Shop Zodiac Soy Candles

We can’t presume to know the perfect gift for every wife. But we do know that at the heart of every truly great gift is a thoughtful approach. Your job is simply to notice your wife’s routines, rituals and passions — and then consult our list of 92 gift ideas that will show you were paying attention.

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Gift your favorite astrology fan a clean-burning candle made specifically for her Zodiac sign, with a blue and gold foil label to match. Hand-poured in Charlotte, North Carolina, each eight-ounce candle is made from 100 percent soy wax, a cotton-lead free wick, and zero chemicals, and should burn for 50 hours.

Why Shop With Us

Aviva Patz is the Executive Editor at Reader’s Digest and a former Executive Editor of Psychology Today, and has written and edited for top publications including Health, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Prevention, and more. Even as she is obsessed with health topics, including nutrition and skin care (having grown up with allergies, asthma and her fair share of acne), Aviva is a certified shopaholic, and her love language is gifting, so she spends an inordinate amount of time online shopping for platform shoes, the perfect black pants, earrings, planters, art posters, and the coolest presents for everyone in her life.

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